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Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Wednesday's Thoughts 11/18

Repeated frustrations and disappointments are always a reflection of repeated misunderstandings and presumptions.

Why do we get so frustrated about things that mean so little in the grand scheme of our happiness? The way a person treats you has no bearing on how you treat yourself or how those important to you treat you.

The groomer who butchers your dog, then leaves you a nasty voice-mail has issues in her own life that affect her happiness. You will never see her again. Move on and do not let it affect your happiness. The dog's hair will grow back.

The co-worker who is overbearing and demanding obviously has issues outside of you. You will not fix them. You should not try to fix them. She doesn't matter to you. Her attitude does not have any affect on who you are. Don't let her affect who you are. Ignore it. Do your job and move on.

If you are disappointed with the way something is, change it. If you have tried to change it and it did not work, try something else. There is no rut we get into that we cannot get out of. So many things have changed in my life the past few years and none of it happened on it's own. It happened because I wanted it to happen, because I imagined it happening, because I manifested it in my own life.

Take responsibility for your own life and your own happiness. Be happy.

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